Diary of a babydyke in transition

RELEASE          2014

Dear Counsellor:

This is a fictitious blog to help newly coming-out lesbians to get a handle on being a lesbian. Kate’s morphing into James was another tale for newly coming-to-terms transgender guys. The people had real things happening to them as teenagers though the writer is not a teen but a retired teacher and counsellor.



#1 by T.B. Markinson

This is a wonderful work to help readers understand the emotional turmoil of those born the wrong gender. This fictional diary handles the subject with care and respect and it may answer some questions that readers might have. 

…it would be a valuable resource for teachers and caregivers.

I wonder if the author will continue the story since it ends abruptly and there’s so much more to explore and explain. Readers will want to know what happens next in James’ s journey.

A follow-up is coming, maybe 2018.


#2 Review by P.S. Winn:

I felt this was an okay book and I think a lot of younger people trying to figure out their sexuality might find it interesting…I know a lot of kids go through rough time, figuring out what life is all about, even as adults we have a tough time with this. 

I think the author did a good job capturing what life is like for Kate, beginning in her 11th year in a Catholic school and ending a year later. 

I found myself sympathizing with Kate and I guess that is what the author was trying to accomplish.

#3 review

4.0 out of 5 stars Her cousin Joe seems to be her best support. I am a former crisis & school …

ByTony R. Parsons on March 7, 2015

Format: Kindle Edition

The Diary of a Babydyke is about Kate aka James Jones (17, narrator, Catholic, shoe sales clear, café waiter) transition from female lesbian to transsexual.
Her cousin Joe seems to be her best support.

I am a former crisis & school social worker (MSW). I am a male heterosexual. There is not to many type of clients I have not worked with that includes GLBT?, or medical; AIDS/HIV.

It has been DSM 5 for several yrs. now.

A very awesome book cover, great font & writing style. A very well written personal diary (book). It was very easy for me to read/follow from start/finish & never a dull moment. There were no grammar/typo errors, nor any repetitive or out of line sequence sentences. Lots of exciting scenarios, with several twists/turns & a great set of unique characters to keep track of. This could also make another great lesbian/transsexual movie, or mini TV series. It was not as exciting as I was hoping it would be so I will rate it at 4/5 stars.

#4 review

4.0 out of 5 stars I enjoyed the narration of James’ tale

ByCheyenne Blueon January 4, 2015

Format: Kindle Edition

This book, written as the diary of someone questing their sexual identity, was originally published as a series of blog posts. It follows the journey of an Australian teenager as they journey through the transition from female to male. The writing is straightforward, simple, and heartfelt, and relates Kate’s transition to James in the context of school, family, work, and the new friends James makes in the trans community.

I enjoyed the narration of James’ tale, and the no-frills approach to the telling. I would have liked a bit more of an insight into how Kate arrived at the conclusion that she needed to become James. It all happened very quickly – Kate read a book on 10 March, decides this defines who he is and the next month he’s in Perth having hormone injections, without, it seems, having received any outside assistance in making and acting upon his decision.

That aside, James’ story is an interesting tale that will appeal to any one involved with transgender teens, or who wants to understand more about them.


The Diary of a Babydyke in Transition. excerpt:


Hi, my name is Kate and this is my diary from 2012 to 2013. I’m average height, average weight, have dark hair and blue eyes. I have a mother, step-father, sister and baby brother. I’m in Year 11 at school.

Oct 1

Claire of the moon.

Today was great and not so great. I am so close to telling my friends, it hurts. I am so scared they’ll reject me and make fun of me. I couldn’t stand it. I promised myself that I would see the counsellor next term. But I don’t want to tell the office lady who will want to know why I want to see her. I’ll have to be strong but I know I’m weak. At least I’ll get an idea of people’s reactions. But it could be so bad.

We all met up at the train station and travelled into the city to see Claire of the moon. It was on at one of those artsy cinemas and I hoped my friends would like it. When I chose it, they wanted to know what it was about. I said there’s a group of writers who meet up for a weekend workshop.

Well, it was that and more. Two women basically get together with a walk along the beach and getting wet. The supposedly straight woman (Claire) resists the overtures of her roommate. I could identify with her as I am resisting still.

After the movie we find a café and mull over what we’ve seen. My friends ask me if I knew that it was a film about lesbians what with the leaders of the workshop being ones too. I deny all knowledge of it but they don’t believe me. Rhiannon pipes up with the names of some girls at our school who are definitely lesbians. I ask her how she knows. She heard it from other girls so I asked them what they thought of lesbians. My heart was in my mouth as I listened to them talking disparagingly about them. Then they asked me. I said I didn’t know but weren’t there a lot of famous lesbians, like Ellen DeGeneres and Martina Navratilova. They’re not bad and are good role models. I don’t think they were convinced and added that the Church does not condone them.

I need to speak to someone soon. Maybe I’ll try the kidshelp.com.au site. This is too hard.

6 thoughts on “Diary of a babydyke in transition

  1. Gareth Rego says:

    I’m am the student welfare coordinator here at Collingwood College; we currently have a Year9 transgender student I thought the free e-book may be of use to. Cheers Gareth

  2. helene says:

    I’m a student counsellor at two schools- not sure how to access the free copy?

  3. Rebecca says:

    Hi Michael,
    I am a well-being co-ordinator and would love a copy of the e-book ‘Diary of a baby dyke in transition’. Can you please direct me to the link to order the free e-book?

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